Gone Fishing

Categorically speaking, I’m the “goody two-shoes” type. If you’ve never met me, just take my word for it because part of my persona is sticking to the truth. I’ve never gotten a traffic ticket, ignored a jury duty summons or neglected to return my library books by the due date. I do have one naughty little secret to share with you, I play hooky. Not only do I believe in escaping what the world expects you to be on a given day, I highly recommend it.

Call it a mental health day, a Ferris Bueller lark or designated “me time,” refer to it by whatever name you choose, but do not deny yourself the occasional escape from your many obligations and duties.

Before you go too far off the beaten path, the good girl side of me must warn you about the rules. Granted, they are my rules, but I hope you will indulge me. First, understand that hooky is a special dispensation you grant the worn-out deserving inner you. It should not be abused or turned into a habit. I allow myself one (okay, maybe two) days per year. My second rule is select the day wisely. Careful planning is necessary so innocent people don’t suffer as a result of your absence.
Beautiful young woman in a pensive expression
For example, do not take personal time from work on the day an important project is due, no reneging on playing teacher’s helper the morning of your third grader’s field trip and do not dare cancel out an hour before your mother-in-law’s big birthday bash.

The third and most important rule: do something that gives you great joy. Escape to the beach with a picnic lunch or hide out in the library
Beach bag
and lose yourself in a racy novel. Check into a day spa, go fishing or drive to a nearby city and play tourist. Perhaps you’d rather bolt the doors and keep the world at bay. It’s perfectly fine to stay home and have a movie marathon with Netflix or your favorite DVD’s, watch the daytime soaps if you must, or rearrange your furniture if it would make you happy. The point of this day of freedom is to recharge and refresh.

One last rule: banish any thoughts of guilt from your mind. Hooky is an annual event if you follow my rules. Own it, strategically plan it and make it fun! The sole purpose is to relieve stress and prevent burn-out. It is a day of freedom rich with the significant benefit of blissful peace. Experience the joy and then return to your normal routine a happier you!

10 thoughts to “Gone Fishing”

  1. Love it!! I do enjoy just getting away someplace by myself without having to answer to anyone for a few hours. Pure Heaven. But, Sunny, you have really never had a traffic ticket? Well, I have only had two and the last one is quite a story. will have to tell you about it some day. Hope you are keeping cool. Judy

    1. Yep…no traffic tickets in all my years of driving. I have a good friend that owns a traffic school but never had the pleasure of giving her some business. 🙂

  2. Jan, I have done this for years.i would call the boss and admit I needed a mental health day.he didn’t always approve, but that didn’t effect me in the least. someone you know well, R.Z., think Team G members, used to do it when she worked for me. She used it to catch up on ironing, I swear ironing, that was her therapy. I guess whatever works for you, is the best medicine.

    1. Jon you are a wise man. Ask permission. On the subject of ironing, it is a task I don’t mind but would not make it a planned activity for a day off. As you stated…whatever works. 🙂

  3. Interesting you write about this as I wonder why I still must fill my full day, even after I left my job. I need to give myself permission, and I don’t even need it. Hummmmm…

    1. It’s a learning curve Irma. You’re new to a life no longer overloaded with demanding tasks. You’ll ease into it. You are right, you must give yourself permission.

  4. What kind of sugestions do you have for a person like myself, who is unable to escape from their daily routine?

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